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[quote=Anonymous]Take some time to mourn the marriage you didn't get because of the abuse. Take some time to remember and be grateful for what is out of your life now: abuse, kids not witnessing an abusive marriage, tension, walking on eggshells, etc. Then spend some time thinking about what's good about being divorced: calm, no unexpected outbreaks, etc. Finally, every day remind yourself that you are a strong and intelligent person, you walked away from abuse, you can take care of yourself, you can live in peace. And if you're missing the good parts of marriage, remember that you can find them elsewhere. Best wishes to you, OP. The right decision isn't always the easiest decision and emotions need time to process.[/quote]
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