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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cut off my abusive mom and siblings two years ago. Best decision I ever made, my life is so much more peaceful now. Block their numbers and move on with your life. [/quote] Op here. I want to do this, but A) feel sad for my kids who love my mom. I’m always supervising and she is very sweet to them (which sometimes I strangely resent because she was so unkind to me as a kid - but again, therapy for me in 2022!) and B) I do feel a sense of shame that my brother cut me off. I feel embarrassed and also hurt by the injustice of it. That someone who was so toxic and unkind cut me off telling me I was the problem. It’s hard to articulate …. But yes, peace is what I don’t have with my mom in my life. [/quote]
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