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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Just some comments to some of the responses... He seems to understand the fertility decline. We've discussed it before, and also again last night. But I get the feeling he thinks age 40 is the number. As one poster said, my fear is that 4 years becomes 5 becomes 6.... and then I'm 40 and out of options. I don't really care about getting married, but yes I do want to be with someone long enough before having a child to have a solid foundation. I know that takes time, but I think maybe 2 years still seems reasonable? I feel sick to my stomach about this. It feels like there's no solution now. It doesn't seem smart to bank on him adjusting his time period by learning about fertility or us just progressing further into a relationship. I wish I didn't want children. [/quote]
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