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[quote=Anonymous]The reason some people take longer to heal from something like a cheating spouse is that people gave different starting points. Many people are still carrying trauma from their childhoods or from past relationships. For a person like this, being cheated on is not an isolated event they can just move on from. It’s part of a series of traumas and betrayals by loved ones. Often people in this position hit a rock bottom because if the cheating, they feel so worthless and unloved that their only connection to self-love us the anger they feel. Because it’s proof that somewhere inside them, something believes they deserve more and better. - never been cheated on, but very familiar with how compounding trauma works and how long it can take to recover (years, it can take years).[/quote]
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