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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They don’t get therapy because they don’t see that they are part of the problem in their own misery, and often feel like being a victim gets them some kind of social leverage. I understand that being cheated on can be a very traumatic event to some people, but [b]the choice to not heal and move on to real happiness is what baffles me.[/b] [/quote] Agreed. It's a theme here, and it not just calling out -- it's stewing yourself in these bitter juices. What's the old phrase? It's like holding a hot coal tight in your hand and expecting it to burn someone else. It's also weirdly self-indulgent, like public masturbation. Again, the public and vindictive joy, not just calling out bad behavior, but the lascivious indulgence in spitting it out over every thread. Never cheated on anyone, by the way, but my first husband cheated on me. His weakness, his loss, his problem. I refuse to take it with me. [/quote]
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