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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How can I force this issue or am I in the wrong? I am sole breadwinner, make about 500k so money isn't an issue but wife wants our 2 kids to go to private school for middle and high school. The school is about 30k per year. That's about $700k I'm pre tax money and not counting college.

I went to public school my whole life, including a good state school so my tuition from kindergarten through end of grad school was about the cost of one year of this middle school, combined.  I think private school is a waste, unless you are in a bad school district or your kid has unique needs.

Leaving aside I could retire several years earlier if we sent the kids to the good, local public school, I feel my wife has lost the sense of what a dollar is. She isn't a spendthrift on other areas. I feel like if this is so important, then she can work with basically every penny she earns going to pay tuition.

How do I raise this without blowing things up?[/quote]

Um, this is so one time at band camp, in the 80s or 90s. .

It's 2021.  A whole lot has changed!  Kids can't just waltz out of public school into good colleges with lots of safeties anymore.  Kids are getting into NO college.  Public schools have changed too.  And you earn enough to pay for private.  Private high school is maybe 3,000/month.  There is a sibling discount.  That's roughly the same cost as daycare for middle class folk, or cost of nanny.  Just stop spending cash on stupid toys and cars or whatever, and redirect those funds toward your kids future.  [/quote]

$3000 per month per kid, and it only goes up. If op lives in a good school district, they don’t need private school. [/quote]

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