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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you have a chore chart? I know it sounds dumb, but it may help. I'm disorganized and it appears lazy but I"m actually genuinely not "seeing" what needs to be done. Having it explicitly laid out in a calendar or bulleted list helped me immensely. And that way it's coming from an external source that's NOT the spouse, so it doesn't come off as "nagging." I'm the wife, for what it's worth.[/quote] Op here. Yes we’ve done this twice in therapy. We go through the exercise of making the chart and then DH simply does not do the items on the chart, unless I turn into an absolute shrew and ride him about each little task like I’m literally his drill sergeant. [/quote]
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