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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly is he dropping the ball on? How old are your children? Can you outsource?[/quote] Op here. A recent example is, through therapy we went through the exercise of making a spreadsheet of all the work we have to do in a month and dividing up who does what. My list is much longer than his, but I was like, please just tell me what things you will handle and then handle them without my involvement. One item on his list is our car-registering it, maintaining it, etc. Last weekend, I had to go out of town for 2 days and as I got in the car to leave on my road trip, I realized the car had not had an oil change in 14 months. When I asked DH about it he got very defensive and said he has been very busy. His list has 3 things on it, mine probably has 40. And he can’t even do the 3 things. [/quote]
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