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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get it. The disengagement is what is killing me. DH spends every moment that he is not actively working (which is maybe 4.5 hours a day) staring at his phone or playing a video game. If I want him to do anything childcare or household related, I have to ask him explicitly and even then, I am often told he is "busy". The annoying thing is that if I do start demanding more, or express any frustration with the fact that I am doing almost all of the childcare/housework, he immediately blows up at me for being a nag. It's basically not worth it because at best I will get a couple days of resentful contributions before things return to the status quo, plus have to have several difficult conversations with him about the whole incident. [b]I don't know what the answer is.[/b] But solidarity.[/quote] The answer for you is to definitely divorce or treat him like an ATM. It certainly doesn't sound like he's adding a lot of value.[/quote]
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