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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds more like a swat than a spanking. I would not be happy but I wouldn't go nuclear on them either. I would tell the boys "that's how I was disciplined growing up but it's not how your father and I want you to be disciplined, and I'm sorry it happened to you. You need to obey grandma and grandpa when you're at their house but they should never hit you." Then I would have a conversation with my parents saying "I know you don't view it as abusive but thinking has changed on this topic. If you say you won't do it again we can move on, although I would appreciate it if you also apologized to the boys. If you think that this boundary is not something you can respect, I can't let you watch them unsupervised."[/quote]
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