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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Knowing your worth, and being open to love is a big thing. Also, sometimes part of it is just luck. There are really awesome people who continually get the short end of the stick. I learned at an early age that life isn’t fair a lot of the time and there is no rhyme or reason to it.[/quote]

[b]So much is about finding someone that didn't have a f____ked up childhood.  A person's childhood is such a major red flag that so many miss and don't see how it will play out in middle age, the leftover, unaddressed issues and learned coping mechanisms.[/b]

I will heavily council my kids to look at their future partner's parents/family relationships very carefully.

I also think she had a lot of tragedy early in life (her mom dying young) and now karma is coming back to her in a good way.  She seems like a genuinely good, warm-hearted, emotionally-sound person.[/quote]

absolutely +1[/quote]

Do you have any idea how depressing this is for those of us who had to leave abusive spouses? Thanks for telling me my mistakes will limit my child’s chance at a normal family.[/quote]

Get them into therapy.  Kids that deal with it before embarking on their own romantic and adult relationships will do fine.  The problem is these kids don't address it until they blow up their own marriages or are suffering major crises down the road that are attributed to things they saw growing up.  And, this isn't just for children of divorce, it's for any kids that grew up in an acrimonious household.[/quote]

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