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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]3 kids ages 7 and under. I feel like it is getting to this point with my oldest. The arguing is taking a toll on her. How do I know it’s more traumatizing than moving, changing schools, having no money, and only seeing one parent at a time would be? I don’t care about my happiness, only my kids. I wish I had a crystal Ball to see what was best. This is brutal. [/quote] You may say that you don't care about your own happiness but your children will see it and will blame themselves. Presumably, you have tried counseling, even if it is only you going to counseling. I have no advice for you other than to ask yourself if you are better off with or without him and act accordingly. If you decide that leaving is best then see a very good divorce lawyer and get advice about money and find out if you leave will it be considered abandonment. Good luck to you and do nothing without the best legal advice.[/quote]
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