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[quote=Anonymous]You do have my sympathies, OP, but I will give you some tough love so you can get your footing back.

You've said the situation is the same as it was a year ago so it's obviously not going to resolve itself. Time for action.

First, contact the local senior services office in your parents' area or the local bar association. Tell them you need some recommendations for an elder care attorney w/financial planning experience. Tell your parents it would be a good idea for them to make an appointment and go over what their options are, and if they are willing, have you phone in for the conversation.

Just taking that first step may get your parents' attention since listening to an "expert" may be what they need to get out of their inertia and focus on choosing what THEIR last years will/can look like.

Second, your sister is the one who needs therapy. She must deal with her anxiety and prepare to go back to living life as a fully functioning adult.

The Elder law attorney should be able to help with this matter, too, as adult cdependent hildren are not unusual in these kinds of situations.  They may be able to provide resources.[/quote]

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