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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a low income senior place (I fit the minimum age requirements) in my town with openings. My kids can stay with my spouse.[/quote]

PS if my kids want to visit me, great. If not, I won’t push them.[/quote]

So you're planning to tell them they don't have a home with you, and force your spouse to have 100% physical custody, and you think your spouse will agree with that and it won't be emotionally damaging to the kids?

I don't see how you are going to afford much child support but if you aren't having any physical custody you will likely owe it.[/quote]

The senior home is within walking distance of our house. This would be a place I could afford, and it doesn’t allow young people to reside there.[/quote]

Also, as I said before, it is low income housing for seniors.[/quote]

You can't just force 100% physical custody on your ex because you want a cheaper apartment.  It sounds like you need a financial planner and a lawyer to help you understand your state's divorce and child support laws.[/quote]

My dad refused joint custody. His family (not mom’s) who went to the hearing confirmed it. I will contribute what I can but I don’t have much. I suppose I could take them part time if i live out of a van.[/quote]

It sounds like you can't afford a divorce.  Maybe you should focus on increasing your income.[/quote]

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