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[quote=Anonymous]I posted about my uncaring brothers and elderly mom who took a sudden turn and now needs private care at her assisted living apt. I did get the POA  giving me control of her finances and healthcare. My brothers have no idea. Every time I talk with them about liquidating her home that now sits empty they go nuts! I found out one brother has plans to move into it. I guess he’s thinking he’ll rent out his smaller home.  Meanwhile my other brother is driving her vehicle around valued at about 30k.  I asked for the title to the car to sell and go towards her care and  they are telling me things like, “  probably won’t get much for it so no point in selling”. House and car  are in her name only and total less than 10% of her assets and could pay for her care for about 9 yrs.

They are fighting me on liquidating any of her assets to go towards her care! I now know I can legally  do whatever I want  to give my mom the best care she deserves with HER MONEY.  I just feel horrible it’s come to this and I know my brothers are going to go nuts when they find out I am her POA and legally they have zero say now.  I’m sick to my stomach I had to do this and how callous they are acting towards a woman who loved them so much. [/quote]

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