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[quote=Anonymous]OP, unless you ask for opinions, giving opinions is rude. Even when it's family. Forget for a moment it's family -- how do you deal with rude people? You change the subject. Next, you probably say that you don't want to talk about it. Next you probably say that you are uncomfortable with this conversation and find it rude that they keep commenting. Next you leave the room. Next you scale back time together. Point is: you treat them like you would anyone. They are rude. You deal with that. BUT you and DH have to make sure that you are not making the conversation about your baby, your babies habits, what you are doing about schedules, how hard it is, how hard decisions are. If you do that - people ARE going to weigh-in and problem solve.[/quote]
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