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[quote=Anonymous]I saw on the Parenting forum that someone had coined the term "new parent hubris," which seems like a perfect phrase!  I'm friendly with a woman who is a first time mom (former teacher, now SAHM) and she always has these confident answers for any situation or parenting question that moms in our circle have.  I actually have three kids, and often still feel like I don't know what I'm doing.  She only has one, but you couldn't tell based on how she projects. Part of me is really envious- how can a woman who only has one know more (or seem to) than someone who's on her third??  I don't know why this bothers me so much- I guess it's just my own insecurity. I think I'm a pretty good mom, but maybe it's part of the SAHM/WM thing that's getting to me.  She has time to go to parenting classes on potty training and make neat crafts with her kids. If I make it to the gym at lunch and get everything through dinner to bath and bed with little to no drama, I feel accomplished!

I know BTDT moms can be dismissive of FTMs' advice, but a lot of times, this woman's advice seems spot on.  She's a very nice person and I like her.  But why do I feel so envious and also a slight bit resentful at the same time?[/quote]

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