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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel very strongly that given a choice my DH would choose our pets over me. He brings home dogs without my consent and when I get very upset and give him an attitude he tells me to leave. He wanted me to get cats because I’ve always been a cat person but I really didn’t want anymore at my age but he pushed me and we ended up with 3 kittens from the same litter. That was 7 yrs ago and[b] now one of the cats has started urinating all over the furniture and I want to give her away because the smell is atrocious. He absolutely will not allow it! Fyi cat was vet checked and has no issues. I’m finding it unbearable to live in our home with the smell. He tries to clean it but I still smell it and he says he doesn’t smell anything and that I just don’t love animals like he does. [/b][/quote] Effing disgusting, sounds like you have "sprayers." Gross, and you will never get it out. Your house could even depreciate in value because of this horrific smell that permeates the home. Personally, I'd leave because I couldn't stand it. If you live with it and should presumably be "nose blind" to this odor I can only imagine how horrifying it is to a casual guest. That said, no one should bring home a pet without a partner's consent at all, but not hearing the dog complaints. IDK, this is a husband problem. He told you to leave so..leave. I am not convinced this is entirely a pet issue or you would be jointly working to resolve pet issues. [/quote]
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