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[quote=Anonymous]My DH's family gathers every Sunday afternoon, to spend time together and eat dinner. Usually at our house. Most of us are Christian, but DH's sister's husband is Jewish, and they celebrate both sets of holidays. In the past, when we've been together when the sun goes down during Hanukkah, we light the candles, and the Jewish parent leads the blessing, and then the kids exchange little gifts. But, the adults don't exchange gifts. When we gather at Christmas, there are gifts for kids and adults. This summer, my BIL's mother came for several months to provide pandemic childcare. We saw her frequently, because she'd bring the kids over to play with their cousins, and she came to Sunday dinner. If she came for dinner, she always brought something, like a bouquet of flowers. Tonight, when we were exchanging gifts, she had sent Hanukkah gifts for my kids. She and her husband are coming to visit in a few days, and next Sunday they'll come to dinner. I kind of assume they'll bring me a hostess gift/Hanukkah gift, and something for the kids. Should I get them (the grandparents) gifts? What is the expectation here. [/quote]
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