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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like most of these things centered around their names or birthdates would be a painful reminder.  One of my relatives has a child that severed ties with her due to joining a cult and any mention of them basically sends her into a depressive tail spin. Maybe pictures that she can look at and then put away?
The answer might also differ based on whether you are bio dad, adoptive parent, foster parent, or step mom.[/quote]

I am their stepmom, and I completely I get your point. The best way to explain the dynamic is that she doesn't care about having any relationship with the kids, she cares about [i]portraying[/i] that she has a relationship with the kids - if that makes sense. She likes to post things on social media that make her look like she did all these amazing, fun things with the kids, but she had zero interest in actually [i]doing[/i] any of those things with them. Her concern is only about how she looks to others.[/quote]

Dp.

Why even bother getting her a gift when you have such a low opinion of her?  Who are you trying to impress?[/quote]

As someone with a tinge of sociopathy myself, I must note it is possible to be completely dead inside yet still see what society expects to be done and do it on manual, as it were. [/quote]

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