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[quote=ThatSmileyFaceGuy][quote=Anonymous][quote=ThatSmileyFaceGuy][quote=Anonymous]What's wrong with being picky?[/quote]

Until you realize that by being overly picky and dismissing potential partners because they don't check off EVERY line on your list of attributes, that you may be missing out on the relationship that you were destined for, and end up bitter and alone .[/quote]

I get that.  Here is my story though.  I was, in my younger and more naive days, not picky at all.  Let me clarify.  I used to see the "potential" in every guy who paid any attention to me.  I saw "qualities" in them that no one else saw (because most of the time they were there).  I think I loved the idea of these past men more than I loved them.  So in my old age of 33 I decided to stop settling for everything that comes my way and wait not for the perfect guy, but perfect for me.  I'd love to meet someone who will love me and who I'd love back.  But being a spinster is not the end of the world.  Not after what I've been through.  [/quote]

I can see that, it's those (both men and women) that might turn aside the charming, funny, intelligent prospect for something as silly as they aren't tall enough, or don't have the right career, or not travelled enough. Those are the ones that are being too picky. [/quote]

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