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[quote=Anonymous]I doubt it's passive-aggressive, more likely the simpler answer which is he's oblivious and a poor communicator. If you still think you want to be with him you could find time to tell him that you feel that you two have been out of sync lately with your communication. Express your frustration that you feel like the times where you've said you're explicitly unavailable he has contacted you, which he is then interpreting as you being MIA. Reiterate that you're not trying to be MIA and do want to talk to him and spend time with him, but that because of your demands with the kids you need not only a more clear schedule of your time but also need that schedule to be clearly communicated and kept to. If he feels he's being attacked, if he feels this is lacking in spontaneity that he wants from a relationship, if he thinks you're blowing it out of proportion, etc., etc., then he is not the one for you right now. [/quote]
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