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[quote=Anonymous]They are conditioned now to your yelling. They don’t need to react until that part happens. It is hard as the parent. I think consistency, giving choices (cleaning up very soon - if their concept of time is lose or say 2min- do you want to start with the legos or the blocks?) no choice but to clean upC it gives an element of control and identifies a place to start. Be consistent and present. When we say, please set the table. If you say it, keep doing your other stuff, forget abd come back 10 min later and yell- they know this routine and wait for the yell bc they can delay longer. I commend you OP for recognizing it - this stuff id hard. You are in the trenches! You can do it. And you’ll be happier from it. I used to yell. Big game changer for me and my kids. [/quote]
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