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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not talking about big drama or yelling/tears/recriminations, but just basic setting boundaries and opening one’s mouth to say “that doesn’t work for me” or what have you. Genuinely curious: What stops you from speaking up? My mom, sister and aunt are all railroader types, but their disappointment or pouting, etc., is simply not my problem. When they act up and act out, I just shrug and go about doing what I need to do. If they don’t call for a while, OK. If we aren’t as close as a result, OK—I’ve got plenty of friends and family members who treat me with respect and kindness, so I don’t need to kowtow to the “Big Personalities” in my family. Has DCUM advice ever helped you to stand up for yourself?[/quote] It’s less energy and pain to just avoid certain family members or situations. I did not go to my cousin’s DD’s baby shower in person, but just sent a gift. It was a lot more pleasant for me than any possible outcome of attending. [/quote]
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