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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would you talk to a counselor about it? On your own?[/quote] What does he need to talk to a counselor for? There’s no talking through a basic, primal need. I don’t blame OP for stepping out. That said - be honest OP. Have you put on a significant amount of weight or otherwise let yourself go? That can tank a woman’s drive quickly. [/quote] Interesting that everybody says the low desire partner should be the one to go to counseling to fix it rather than the high desire partner going to fix it. The thing is that you don't "fix" either. Nobody is doing anything wrong. But *both* partners could change something to make their relationship improve, even without involving the other. And most people don't know this because they refuse to learn about it and definitely refuse to see a counselor. If you want to see how talking to a professional would help, you can google it. I'm not the expert and I don't think you'd believe me anyway. It is wild that so many people cheat without considering therapy for themselves first. Setting up an appointment with a therapist is so much less complicated than setting up a tinder account and there is zero risk of blowing your life up because of it.[/quote]
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