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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This just...isn't something you need to focus on. She is who she is, she does what she does. If you don't want her there and/or don't like her, don't invite her. Pretty simple.

If you're this focused on someone else and can't help yourself but focus on her, don't invite them.

She may be giving her best/all she's capable of. She may be doing so for her husband. If that isn't good enough for you, don't invite them.

Why are you focused on her? You should be chatting with people who want to chat, engaging with people who want to engage, and make sure the drinks and food are replenished, etc.[b] Surely you have something better to do with your time and energy[/b] than focus and ruminate on her.[/quote]

Np If someone is sprawled on the couch where others want to sit how exactly is the op supposed to ignore that?[/quote]

Well, apparently she...did. That's literally what she did, so ask her!  :lol:

If you need or want her to move, use your words: "Hey Cara, since we're going to play a game around here, could you please read in the study, or the sunroom? Thank you!"[/quote]

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