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[quote=Anonymous]If you want to find a love match, you gotta open your heart to other people's strengths and the things that make them special. Being in a state of contempt for most of the people around you and saying they're "riff raff" who don't have anything going for them is a poisonous mentality that's going to sabotage your attempts to meet people who you want to build relationships with, and to connect with those people when you do. You need to adjust your mindset, not your dating app. You're not going to find love by complaining that you can't afford the quality service with quality people but everyone else in your income bracket is a loser. You may also need to figure out what keywords you should be using to filter your results (is "do not take care of themselves" code for "420 friendly" or something else?). There's nothing wrong with being a square and the queer dating sites I've been on are full of women who are attractive and have successful careers, don't make drugs a central part of their lives, and aren't part of any countercultures. Having boundaries and standards isn't the same thing as going into dating thinking of most of your peer group as trash. [/quote]
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