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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sick of precious people getting away with being a-holes. Seriously. I’m one and I have ways to mitigate (tell him about DCUM, for starters).

John, you’re kinda being an a-hole. If you aren’t ok with that I have some ideas. If you are, then I’ll see you at thanksgiving, the festival of a-holes. [/quote]

I kind of agree with this. And I’ve dealt with depression and anxiety and have empathy for anyone going through that (and agree that could be the problem here). But you can’t take it out on others. Not only is it hurtful to them, it drives away your support system and makes thing worse. And also: no one has a right to be a constant ahole to others.

[b]I also feel there’s a gendered element here because I don’t think a female family member would get away with this behavior without being called out directly or ostracized.[/b][/quote]

No. The behavior sounds a lot like my ex-wife (she was actually far worse). She got away with it for 20 years with me, and with the rest of the world for 50 years. [/quote]

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