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[quote=Anonymous]It's not the score that is or can become shameful--it's adult behavior. Imagine getting in your car after the match your kid's team just lost 20-0 and NOT channeling your own feelings of inadequacy. Rather, you could just say, "Welp, that was tough. The other team was really good. It takes hard work to become that good!" For coaches and parents on the winning side, clap and cheer for your players without going overboard. And when the game is over let them feel happy but maybe remind them that not every game will look like that. And remind yourself, your kid's victory in U-ANYTHING soccer by whatever margin really doesn't matter :) See, no shame anywhere! Just normal, healthy processing of feelings related to wins and losses. [/quote]
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