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[quote=Anonymous]I just realized that I was a victim of verbal abuse by my husband a couple weeks ago.
We had a silly fight that I don’t even remember what it was about. At the end he told me “you are a fxxking b$tch” and he claimed that the kids prefer him, which not correct. He just wanted to hurt me and he was successful. This was the first time he called me names like this.
A few years ago when we had fights he would say “F$$k you”. I told him I will not tolerate that and he stopped.
So here we go again and I don’t want it to become a pattern.
We are back to being civil with each other but this has been bugging me.
I have been wondering if I should address it with him and name it and tell him I won tolerate it or should I wait if it happens again and said it then.
It is yesterday while watching a moving that I realized this was verbal abusive. I am sure if I tell him that it will be another fight, but I would rather cut now.

Don’t ask me to run or divorce him, constructive advices only.

TIA[/quote]

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