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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there is an incredibly wide variety of what "jeans and a t-shirt" can mean. I'd buy new stuff every few years to make sure the cuts and silhouettes are keeping a bit. It doesn't have to be trendy, but if you are still wearing jeans from college 10+ years ago, it's probably time for an update. Look around at other women whose style you like. They don't need to be trendy, and you don't have to make all the same choices, but it's a good way to gauge what needs refreshing in your own wardrobe. Beyond that, I don't think the details of what you wear matter much. If you are comfortable, and dressing appropriately for the occasion, no issues. [/quote] This is where I am with what my husband wears. His jeans from 10 years ago look frumpy now. I do buy clothes for him to refresh a bit, keeping with what is his style and preferences. [/quote] OP here. I wear clothes from years ago. It feels wasteful to me to get rid of them. I feel the same about buying new clothes. I already have enough to wear, so it feels like a waste of money to buy more. I do look at other women’s outfits, but I have a hard time imagining how those clothes would look on me. It’s outside of my comfort zone. I think I dress appropriately for where we go. It’s just that we don’t really go anywhere that would require dressier attire. We make decent salaries (HHI $350K), we just don’t eat at expensive restaurants or go to shows (I’ve never been to the Kennedy Center). DH bought me 2 casual dresses, and I didn’t like the way they looked on me so I never wear them. He has comments to friends in the past he likes how some Latina women dress and weather girls. It’s just not me at all. [/quote]
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