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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I avoid dressing for other people in part because I don’t want to set them up for failure, if that makes sense. Like what if I went out of my way to get sexy, DH didn’t notice, and then I was bummed that I did all that work for nothing. Plus I just like the feeling of autonomy knowing that the way I dress is solely to make me happy. Sometimes I love looking great, sometimes I love dressing frumpy. Sometimes he tells me if something is unflattering though, and that sounds mean but I don’t mind. If I knew it was unflattering but I didn’t care, I just tell him that, but sometimes i think I look cute and if I was so I wrong that DH felt compelled to let me know, I keep that in mind. It’s like letting me know I have spinach in my teeth or something. [/quote] And I forgot to answer your question! Yes I care a little bit. Just like he would tell me if I didn’t look as good as I thought, I would do the same for him. But it’s about general style and not dressing for me. [/quote]
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