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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This happens to me too, for 5-10 pound weight losses. I am tall and thin, and my weight gains are evenly distributed, so I find it even stranger. I don’t know the answer but I feel the same way you do, the constant message of I like you better thiner. This is me fluctuating between 135-145 at 5’9, and I’m usually at 140 so I really think this should be imperceptible. I have wondered if perhaps it is more visible in my face than most people? I wonder if that’s the same for you. [/quote]

Though PP, one of my half-baked theories is that it may be that I hang out right on the cusp of being thin/attractive "enough." My weight probably sounds high, and it is what it is, but I have a lot of boobs and butt, so once I go below 165, I start to look more definitively straight-sized (non-plus) and below 150 at all, I very firmly can wear single-digit designer clothes, so it may be that I sort of turn a corner when I dip below those points. But it could be a lot of things.

Another one may have to do with my constantly fluctuating weight and what they perceive as healthy for me, or even just that maybe I was thinner when I met some of them, so maybe when I gain and then lose weight, I seem more like what they remember... IDEK.

-OP   [/quote]

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