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[quote=Anonymous]Are you willing to lose your relationship with your brother over this? Because that is where this line of thinking leads. If you force him to choose between her and you, he will choose her. He already chose her over his wife and kids. I get it. My dad left my mom for an affair partner who became my de facto step mother for 10 years. I was tempted to cut him off entirely, and then went the route of only seeing him without her. Eventually, though, she was just a part of his life I could not deny if I wanted to keep him in mine. So, I sucked it up. I never became friends with her or really had any sort of relationship with her, but I learned to tolerate her and be civil. Eventually, she dumped him, and I was glad to still have him in my life (as deeply flawed as he clearly is).[/quote]
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