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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Disagree with the PP about telling you. No one should have told you anything. Finding out a different way doesn't make it better. Now you know. You can be hurt. And maybe don't invest so much in such a cliquey group. [/quote] They should have told her. You just say “oh I can’t Saturday, I’m going to larla’s birthday thing.” Stating it matter if factly normalizes it. OP can take in that info (she is not close enough to Larla for an invite) and move on. By avoiding telling OP, her friends made it weird. Like she was being excluded. It implies there was a conversation about it since they were all cagey about it (so likely discussed beforehand and agreed not to tell her). That’s sketchy! Just be honest and people will figure stuff out. It’s when you get sneaky and withholding that problems develop. Don’t be weird.[/quote]
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