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[quote=Anonymous]I thought I was bi and married a man. About 10 years in, started realizing I’d made a mistake. It took a while but I got out and identify as lesbian now. Dating women has had its highs and lows but I have not experienced the problems with transwomen the way PP claims. I usually just ignore them on dating sites. If I chat with one, they might say something like it’s hard getting dates even after bottom surgery and I’ll be like “yeah, that must be hard” but there’s no way I’m going to be manipulated into dating one. 
My last partner (we’re friends now) revealed that soon after breaking up with me, she received very unwelcome advances from a close friend who is a trans woman. Made me wonder how long she’d (the friend) harbored those feelings and was waiting for the moment to pounce. Creeped her out, me too. I never saw it coming but I almost wonder if the friend was just there hoping my partner would break things off with me. So it happens. But I don’t think it’s all over the place. I’m pretty sure that if and when I’m ready to date again, that transwomen will not be my biggest problem. Not even close. More like allowing myself to be vulnerable and love again - and win in the numbers game that is stacked against 40 something suburban lesbian single moms. 
Posters who won’t play the game because they are scared of transwomen must not really want to be with a woman. If they did, they’d be willing to deal with an awkward situation here and there. Everything worth having is worth the work it takes to get there. [/quote]

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