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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If someone physically hurts you it's time to break up.  They might manage to fix themselves completely, but when they do they should try their new self out on someone else, not you.

If you allow someone who hurt you another chance you are not demonstrating your love for them, you are demonstrating your lack of love and respect for yourself.[/quote]

There is nothing even remotely like physical abuse or verbal abuse. This is an emotional issue and kind of an epiphany that changed how we see each other. Nothing abusive per se, more like the end of a long period of blindness or misdirection.

But in general I think it is ridiculous to assume you can go through life breaking up with everyone who hurts you. People hurt you, and you hurt other people, and you both try not to, but sometimes you do anyway, and a long term commitment is practically a guarantee that you will, at some point, get hurt. The most you can say is that you can choose to be hurt by that person, in their way, rather than by anybody else; and that you will deal with it and evolve, together. Forgive and remember, is so much of the long haul.[/quote]

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