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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think one secret is to recognize that many people already have established friend groups and/or are exhausted. While they might not reach out for new relationships, some might be open to developing friendships, particularly if you are willing to repeatedly take the initiative.  So, who are you viewing as “your people”?  What proximity interests might you have in common?  Are you willing to be the one to nudge things along — and back off appropriately, also repeatedly, so that your desire for friendships doesn’t become another demand on someone’s hectic schedule?  Is there something you would be interested in joining as a first step? A reading group, an exercise class, a volunteer organization, a workshop? Those are all things that can lead to next steps and beyond— as long as you’re willing to make the effort, recognizing that others might not be as eager for this as you are.   [/quote]

But how do people already have established friend groups? That's what mystifies me. I have not had this since college 20 years out.[/quote]

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