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[quote=Anonymous]I have this issue in my head, too, OP. I never know how to strike the right balance. I say this as a sometimes chubby woman (yo-yo) who may cop to being too sensitive but does NOT like it when coworkers, school moms, etc. say things like "Wow! You've lost weight, haven't you????? How much did you lose????? What diet did you do?????" (I know some women luv, luv, luv to talk about such topics in person and online, but I'm not one of them. so it creeps me out a little when others put me on the spot like that even though I imagine they are admiring, in a way). Anyway, with my own paradigm in mind, when I bump into someone who has obviously lost 25+ lbs, I say either nothing at all (which is what I would like) or, "Oh hi Lisa, you're lookin' great. So I see you're on the auction committee again this year ....."[/quote]
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