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[quote=Anonymous]It's not too late and the only red flag is that you believe you are somehow damaged and not worthy of a great life. I strongly suggest you talk to a therapist and start working on actively reframing your perspective (I had health issues when I was younger and therefore missed out to - I am strong as hell because I am thriving after living through a lot more crap than most people my age have, for example.) You also need to figure out specific, actionable items that are going to be part of your continued success story. For example, joining a dating app and going on a date. Or joining a club. Or getting a job promotion. Or whatever. Also, if you want kids, you will have kids. You may need to be flexible about the when and how, but you can absolutely do it. You are not broken and your life can be what you want it to be. You need to work hard at believing this truth and incorporating it into your life and your identity and your relationships. [/quote]
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