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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Answers: I’m the one close to my friend’s children. My own child is in college. I would like to be considered second or third in her life - I know I’m not family but I have done a lot for her and for her children (babysat for free for four years, took off work when she couldn’t to take older child to practice once a week or he couldn’t play ball on weekend, drive 1.5 hours to see them each way to see them since they moved last year). I’d like to be more important to her now that I’m not babysitting or of use to her. I know she cares about me but I just seem a priority anymore. And it hurts. [/quote] You are an odd duck. Who on Earth measures or counts their tiered importance to someone else in such a concrete way. You sound like quite the clinger. [/quote]
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