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[quote=Anonymous]Start setting boundaries ahead of time. When you make plans with her, tell her when you are making the plans that you will not be able to give her a ride, or that you’ll be going straight to something else and won’t have time for anything else. Just make it very clear in a polite way, but don’t apologize. Part of setting this boundary is creating better expectations for her so she figures out how to solve these issues herself. She has become reliant on you, which is why I suggest setting the boundary ahead of time and not in the moment. That will help avoid situations where you feel guilted into doing it because now she has an urgent need. Give her time to make other arrangements.[/quote]
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