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[quote=Anonymous]I have this friend and we have been friend for 5 years just to give a little background she is 46 and I'm 30. She is truly a sweet person and means well. She doesn't have a car or a license which is fine I'm not judging but each time we hangout to go to dinner or something either on the way to the restaurant or on the way back she wants me to take her on an errand whether it be to the grocery store to pick up milk and break or some food for her elementary aged children.

It gets very irritating because I feel like she is treating me like her personal errand person and not to be rude but I feel like as a grown woman it is her responsibility to arrange her own way or transportation of getting there. I should also add that her not driving isn't because of a disability or any issues. What should I do? Address it to her? How do I politely set those boundaries?

Like I said when we chat on the phone and hangout she does ask me about how things in my life is and she does reciprocate in that way and that's what makes me feel super guilty for feeling super annoyed about her asking me to take her on errands when we hangout.[/quote]

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