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[quote=Anonymous]I am a female, 35, with 2 kids, ages 5 and 8. DH (same age) has been sexually avoiding me for three years now. I don’t have a crazy high sex drive when on a pill, so I got off it, but he has developed anxiety that I’d get pregnant even if he uses a condom. I would love a third kid, but he’s vehemently against it, so we aren’t having another.

Yet, there is no sex but many comments about how I need to be more in shape, how he needs to be more in shape, how we look old, how we have too many kids. All the comments are in response to my sexual advances. Recently I suggested we open our marriage. He was horrified. I don't even know who we are opening it to, tbh, I don't want to bang strangers, but I want to feel desired. Plus, I am horny. DH said I am gross for suggesting it, which is fine, and he will sleep with me. I don't want his pity sex. I think I am going mad with hurt and hormones. I started to develop random crushes. I feel like a horny lonely teenager.

We are not divorcing. Should I get on a pill since it kills my libido, or should I accept the pity sex?[/quote]

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