Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "For those with buys jobs/spouses with busy jobs"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I am going through this now!! I am just deciding that I need attention, I need to be the #1 priority, and that that’s okay. I plan dates, I make a suggestion and we figure out what we want to do together for two hours on a weekend, and we do it. I don’t like making him more stressed at work but that his issue to deal with, not mine. I realized that my husband is a big boy and he can be the one to manage his own stress. And truly, so far so good. It isn’t as hard as I thought to do this because I know for a fact that it is best for both of us. I’m dealing with present discomfort to avoid much worse discomfort in the figure. I spoke with my therapist and she gave me a DBT worksheet and handout with a weird acronym called DEAR MAN GIVE and it has been a game-changer. Check it out. And you aren’t needy! You have needs and that is good and normal. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
