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[quote=Anonymous]We were separated for 2 years until the pandemic when our divorce is final. I got stuck due to lockdown orders and then challenges with remote school and not normal childcare options. We are both in the martial home but one of us owns it now since we divorced. I have been divorced 18 months. Our kids do not know. Everyone else does. Their life has not changed. We stopped doing holidays, dinners, and anything together many years ago. We have not had the same bedroom for many, many years. We were essentially living separate lives in the marriage so there is literally difference to them. I am moving soon. We were never telling them until their lives were actually disrupted from moving. We take turns on different days and live like roommates. I would not tell kids until someone is actually moving. You can start an in-home separation until you resolve housing issues. Then you can tell them. [/quote]
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