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[quote=Anonymous]Nannies and Aupairs are completely abused by moms. This happened to our Aupair but we had an Aupair counselor and I called her and she told me what to do.

I found other Aupairs for her to hang out with who were caring for kids the same age. The SAH moms would drop and run all day long. Then they would go to Starbuck and the park with a group and my aupair would show up and they would act like they didn't know her.

These same women would never leave their kid with a "stranger" and made that clear when I was interviewing.

She was so good about it but so much happier when I "fixed" the situation. There was one mom who was totally respectful and whe would drop for 2 hours but return the favor the next day or week. She should either be paid in money or treated the same as the other moms and get the favor returned.

Kids want playdates and it is very important and it was in her contract. But being used and abused is not.

2-3 is young but once they are 4 lots of playdates are drop and run.[/quote]

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