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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you read I wrote he hasn't paid for anything for my daughter and no I'm not saying don't buy the other daughter things I'm saying it has to be in reason. Not unlimited because you are scared she will not speak to you so you do everything she says. He always complains she only speaks to him when she wants something.
In terms of paying for the house- I pay towards our joint house not the house that's only in his name. I have paid the mortgage for a period of time and then shared the construction costs.[/quote]

You have two homes?

Your situation becomes more confusing with each post.  What is your financial arrangement?  What did you each pay for before the baby?  Why?  And most importantly: WHAT KIND OF DAD IS HE TO YOUR DD?

The bottom line is you were upset when he did more than the bare minimum for one daughter financially.  And now you're upset that he's doing the bare minimum for the other daughter financially.  You're creating a competition in your head and insisting that your DD win and his older DD lose.

If you can't explain why your daughter is being shortchanged without pointing out his arrangement with his other DD, then you're just playing wicked stepmother here.  If he's actually a bad dad you don't need to bring in his older DD as a comparison point.[/quote]

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