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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So when you say “hey, now that I’m back at work I can’t do everything in the mornings, how shall we rearrange things?” what does he say?[/quote] He thinks he’s involved enough. He groans and says things like, “See? I’m handing them their backpacks.” Or, “I told Larlo to put his shoes on.” It’s not enough. I need him to do something significant, not make little comments while I do everything else. [/quote] Figure it out NOT during the morning. So the night before decide who does what. Try not to be accusatory, but just "hey, our family schedule is shifting because now I need to go into an office. In the mornings, here's the list of things that need to be done. I feel like when I ask for help, you are grumbling at me, when in reality we both just need to work to get all these things done." The first things that pops out is to pack bags and make lunches the night before. [/quote]
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