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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a child at UVA who has struggled with mental health issues.

To be perfectly blunt, some reasonable accommodations are appropriate. But there comes a time where if a student is that dramatically incapacitated, they need to withdraw until they can function again. And also, you cannot allow someone with mental illnesses to use it as a crutch.

There are limits to accommodations. At some point, there have to be natural consequences, and they may not always be pleasant.

I mean, in the work world there will be limits to tolerance for this behavior.[/quote]

+1 you can’t lower your standards. If people aren’t up to it, for one reason or another, they need to make choices.

Perhaps relatedly, this is why I hate people trying to get into the “best“ ppossible school – sometimes people are better off being higher up the food chain at a school a step down. [/quote]

PP here — I say this as someone who has worked in academic environments, and as someone who has two DSs,  one who is at the tippy top school and can handle it, and one who is doing well but consciously chose a school a step down. [/quote]

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